@creedon I think I got it! I was able to use this, and just changed it to weddings-1 and weddings, respectfully. will try this with 'special occasions' too!
<script src="https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/jquery/3.5.0/jquery.min.js"></script>
<script>
$(document).ready(function() {
$('.header-nav-folder-title[href="/weddings-1"]').click(function() {
window.location = "/weddings";
});
});
</script>